People often ask if I've had an easy or difficult pregnancy...and I never know quite how to respond. With your first child, everything is new, your body changes on a daily basis, yet you have nothing to compare the journey to. You, baby and body are paving the way, one day at a time. So I usually respond with a little shoulder shrug and a polite "I wouldn't always call this pregnancy easy, however it could always be worse!"
When I talk with my pregnant girlfriends and read horror stories about complicated pregnancies and difficult deliveries, I am reminded that I. have. it. good. Really, really good, in fact. But then there are those crazy ladies. You know, the ones that seem to be living in an alternate universe and claim that they have never felt better than when they were sporting the baby bump. Never felt better? Those people confuse me.
During my pregnancy, I have experienced almost all of the stereotypical pregnancy symptoms... Morning sickness. Swollen
At 24 weeks pregnant, migraines & backaches have become the very unwelcomed new norm and I have altogether forgotten what it feels like to not share my bod with another being. Yesterday as I was driving home from the grocery store I thought to myself, "At least I have not had to deal with those leg cramps I've read about on BabyCenter! That may be the only pregnancy symptom I have yet to experience, but hey, I'll take it!"
....Guess who woke up to a powerful Charlie Horse this morning? Are you kidding me, kid?
Thanks, baby numero uno, for toughening your mama up and helping her experience the good, the bad, and the oh.so painful of pregnancy.